Don’t go there? Standups on Weinstein, taboos- and the gags they regret

Is it ever OK for comedians to joke about sexual assault? Is there such a thing as too soon? Margaret Cho, Doug Stanhope, David Cross and other fearless comics on the fine line between funny and offensive

Last month, as accusations against Harvey Weinstein began to flood in, James Corden stepped on stage at a black-tie event in Los Angeles and joked about the cinema producer’s alleged sexual assault.” It’s a beautiful night here in LA ,” he said.” So beautiful, Harvey Weinstein has already asked tonight up to his hotel to give him a massage .”

Two days later, after a onslaught of criticism, Corden apologised. He is one of many comedians who have attempted to engage with a contentious topic only to have the move wildly backfire. It necessitates huge skill to take on a taboo subject and even then it’s still a minefield. Lenny Bruce was apprehended many times for transgressing obscenity laws, for saying things like” jack me off” and “motherfucker”. He was eventually convicted in 1964. One routine, which suggested that men will policeman off with anything, included the phrase” run come in a chicken “. In 2003, he received a posthumous pardon.

So how do comedians approach taboos? Is there such a thing as too soon? Margaret Cho is addressing the Weinstein scandal in her latest prove: so what does she think went wrong for Corden?” As a rule ,” tells the San Francisco-born comic,” if you haven’t suffered sexual abuse, you probably shouldn’t talk about it .” An abuse survivor herself, Cho says:” My compassion about the issue is built in because I am also the questions. It’s about compassion and experience, rather than talking as an foreigner, like James Corden .”

Lenny Bruce is searched at a police station after his 1961 arrest for using obscene speech on stage. Photo: Everett Collection/ Rex Features

There are always exceptions, tells Cho, but drawing on personal experience is her style of finding laughs in topics not inherently funny.” Where do we find a glimmer of hope within all this terrible stuff ?” she asks.” That’s where slapstick be coming back .”

Cho’s audience is largely familiar with her material, the topics she takes on and words she utilizes. But there are still punters who take offence.” It happens all the time ,” tells Cho.” I have had people get into full-on brawl, but that reaction’s sort of over. Back then, I didn’t have enough skill to be able to open up a can of worms and then wrangle all of those worms. Now I have a multilayered approach. You have a lot of power as a comedian. Terms have an extreme quantity of power .”

It’s a point that Doug Stanhope understands well. The US comic is widely regarded as fearless and brutally honest. He’s written material about abortion, child abuse, combating racism and rape, but always in such a way that tries to challenge easy assumptions.” I gravitate towards subjects the hell is controversial because that’s what’s interesting to me ,” he says.” I have no take over the Kardashians. I don’t watch it, it doesn’t affect my life .”

Stanhope says he works material like a defense lawyer.” I try to find the slant where you go:’ Oh, jeez, that does present reasonable doubt.’ It’s just a matter of seeing the right client. When you have an slant on something that nobody else is touching on, that no one seems to see but is very obvious to you- well, do I like being original? Yes .”

An outsider … James Corden received a onslaught of criticism. Photo: Evan Agostini/ AP

Stanhope investigates sexual abuse on stage.” I have some rape stuff ,” he tells.” It has to be finely phrased. My fear is it came to see you wrong. It can come across as making fun of rape victims altogether if it’s not worded correctly .”

The 50 -year-old started performing in his 20 s.” Things evolve ,” he tells.” There’s stuff I have on albums that I likely wouldn’t do again, or I would rephrase. I don’t tell’ faggot’ any more, even though I’ve defended the use of it before. But at some phase you’re just going to be that old grandpa racist going:’ Well, that’s just the way we talked when I grew up .'”

Countries can differ on what they regard as taboo- and divisions can exist even in the same country. When David Cross, the standup and superstar of Arrested Development, brought his Making America Great Again ! demonstrate to the UK last year, his thoughts on gun control and Donald Trump weren’t considered divisive. But when Cross toured America’s south, it was a different narrative.” I felt the tension more than I ever have ,” says the comedian.” People didn’t want to hear it. To them, people being shot dead should not be a subject for comedy- there’s nothing funny about that. And I disagree .”

Works his material like a defense lawyer … Doug Stanhope in his tour minibus in 2012. Photograph: Christopher Thomond

Cross stimulated wider points about police brutality and gun-control statutes, but some punters voted with their feet. Does he regret that?” I’m so used to this by now ,” he says.” If a handful of people walk out because they don’t like the subject or the style I’m approaching it, I can’t help that , nor do I want to. Perhaps this is just a mix of cynicism and experience, but I don’t think they are going to come around .”

Cross says a number of factors float through his brain when he is dealing with a contentious issue: aiming to make a point, get the biggest giggle possible, and challenge himself to come up with something funny. But there are words that offend , no matter what. Remarkably for a white comic, Cross says the N-word in his latest Netflix special.” Which term ?” he tells, when I ask him about it.” Neighbourly? Nefarious? I’ve never called anybody a nincompoop !”

Joking aside, Cross says he has been challenged for it many times.” I’ve gotten so much shit. If I’m immediately quoting someone, or putting the words into a character’s mouth, that’s how they speak. It’s just silly. I’m not a child, and the people I’m talking to aren’t children .”

When the Australian comic Jim Jefferies first performed in the US a decade ago, saying ” cunt” was considered controversial. Having come from the Aussie circuit, and worked in the UK, he was used to throwing the word around.” In America, there were slapstick clubs that would say:’ One rule- don’t say that word, people hate that .'”

‘ I’ve said stupid things, but I’ve always felt like I’ve done it in character’ … Jim Jefferies. Photo: Ethan Miller/ Getty Images

Jefferies’s jokes often have shocking punchlines. He has a maxim:” If it’s really, really offensive it has to be really, really funny .” If there’s laughter, he says, anyone who is upset has no case because it’s obviously been taken as a joke- the audience laughed, after all.” There are some things you believe in, and some things that you believe are funny- and they are two vastly different things. But it happens organically. I’ve never guessed:’ I’ll challenge myself and try to write a gag about- I don’t know- the Dalai Lama .'”

The comic lately put forward his take on the Weinstein allegations :” You don’t go to rehab for sexual assault. You go to prison .” An online clip from his present scored a million views in 24 hours. But towards the end of the segment, Jefferies reflected on some of his own material.” Now, I’ve been known to stimulate the occasional inappropriate or sexist gag ,” he says.” But I’ve always believed my audience understood that those jokes don’t represent my actual notion. Then went the day that a large part of America was willing to write off’ pussy-grabbing’ as locker-room talk, and I started to rethink that .”

Didn’t realise she was tackling taboos … Fern Brady. Photograph: Murdo Macleod for the Guardian

Has he re-evaluated his position as a standup?” I’ve said stupid things, but I’ve always felt like I’ve done it in character. I’ve done a lot of rape jokes, jokes about domestic abuse- and those are the gags I probably regret. I’ll defend them because they were funny, and the structure of the gag was good and everyone chuckled. The only thing I regret is I don’t know if everyone took it as a joke. I’m still going to be doing gags about women and how relationships have ended in my life. I don’t want to become a wimp and become less edgy, but also I’m a different guy to when I was 25.”

There are comics who have gained a “controversial” reputation virtually by accident. Take Fern Brady. The Scottish comic’s latest depict deals with murderous thoughts, abortion laws and the time her ex-boyfriend tried to kill her. But she says:” I detest shocking people. I never want people to feel bad during my demonstrate. I tried, this year. I believed:’ I really want to do normal material about my home life .’ And then I wrote stuff about thinking about killing my boyfriend in his sleep, so you can’t really get away from who you are .”

Brady says that it was only after reviewers started to describe her as “dark” and “caustic” that she realised she was tackling taboo.” People would say:’ You’re so honest .’ I just believed:’ Why is everyone else lying, then ?'” Her abortion jokes have received bad reactions, but they are motivated by fury.” I find it infuriating that Ireland and Northern Ireland still don’t have legal abortion. And it’s perpetuated largely out of embarrassment and disgrace .” She doesn’t want to offend, just to state her notion that the laws are outdated and discriminatory.

” I actually want to get those gags to work- so everyone goes:’ That’s a very reasonable point.’ I’ve not done it yet. Halfway through the Edinburgh fringe I stopped saying,’ I dressed as a foetus ‘, and changed it to’ unborn newborn’ and the gag started working better. I would have guessed’ unborn baby’ was more emotive than’ foetus’ but apparently not .”

With Corden’s gags, many guessed the timing was particularly insensitive. So does “too soon” really exist?” Perfectly not ,” is the answer I get from most comics.” The’ too soon’ rule doesn’t apply to comedians ,” tells Stanhope.” When a mass shooting happens, or a hurricane is destroying Texas or Puerto Rico, the majority of comics are staring at their Twitter accounts, daring themselves .”

* Margaret Cho’s Fresh Off The Bloat tour reaches Britain on 25 November. Doug Stanhope’s book, Digging Up Mother: A Love Story , is out now. David Cross’s Netflix special, Making America Great Again !, is streaming now. Jim Jefferies’s Unusual Punishment tour reaches Britain in January. Fern Brady’s Suffer, Fools! tour starts on 9 November.

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